"I met my future husband in Georgia."
He was my patient. Now I have never dated a patient ever! But when he left he gave me his number. We talked a lot and he hung around while I went to NY for “old business” . When I came back we were inseparable. And in the same year we met we married at the court house. Little did we know how short our time together would be and how fate would play its part in our lives. I always said God brought us together. We wouldn't have met otherwise. My life began in NY, and by twenty I was an unwed mother in “wifey” status. I was in an unhealthy relationship. It was wasn't bad everyday. But the foot was in my neck to keep me in place. “That stupid look on my face” which I thought was sorrowful never did me any good. I endured that because I didn't know better. And when I did I knew he wouldn't completely let me go. It was twenty years later before I got to Georgia. 20...20...20...20.....20 years I said!!
"I remember crying everyday for an entire year and it was during this time I began to finally pray for help."
And that is when the ball started rolling. BD (baby-daddy) sent us to Georgia for better life with plans on coming down in a few months......except he didn't come. Except to visit. So I continued to pray and decided I was gonna break up with him “ in my head” hahaha I know silly right but it was my way of moving on.
I knew he didn't want me but he wanted me to want him. And so I met my future husband and when BD got wind of it he tried everything nice and not so nice to keep me. My friends asked “if I had some good stuff” but it was more about control. And that. LOL It was so unbearable I was about to give up and GO BACK.....do you believe it! I was this close and I couldn't take the heat of the fire. But I underestimated my future husband, see he already claimed me and I was his. And nothing was going to separate me from him. I will spare you all the details because this story is my love story!
"My husband saved me from myself."
Saved me from an unhealthy place and delivered me to a loving relationship. Where I had peace. And love, And God, And joy! He gave me all of that and loved me totally and completely like no one else. Just as it was meant to be. But I saved him right back being his nurse from beginning to end. We discovered he had stage four colon cancer after only four years together, which means he had it before we met and did not know. And two years we would go through the worst and most beautiful experience of our life together.
"The hardest part was why did God bring us together only to separate us in this way."
The beauty in the blessing was revealed to me a few months later! That he saved me as only he could and I would be there when he left this earth to give him the peace he needed. So this is for you Babe! Love u and miss u! Thank you for the Joy of being your wife. Thank you for bringing me closer to God. This is my love story. This is my testimony.
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